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We have to write poems.
We have to wash up the dishes
and we have no clean clothes.

The children need to be taught.
They need to be picked up after school,
given healthy snacks, and have
their TV time monitored.

The churches need to fill
with prayer, with that
particular silence,
and then empty again.

And yet, how can we?

Tragedy

Horrible beyond belief. Thirty-three 18-24 years old lost senselessly yesterday at a college in Virginia....How many 18-24 year old soldiers have we lost. Do their mommies and dads and friends feel less pain?

Update

Torrential rain in Greenpoint. I have been working around the clock to prepare for the birth of my book in October. Let me tell you...having Jeff was easier.

Through ingenuity, we found Peter Bear his twin matress. Now, Peter and Christopher can go ahead and plan the opera. Art is saved. Life is good.

Catechism, a translation*

Did you refuse to eat food untouched by fire?
Did you waste what was offered to you?
Have you eaten or considered eating the wings of birds,
or bones, or twigs, or forms of ivy?
When you prayed, in what way did you do this?
Did you use the right words?
Have angels appeared to you in unseemingly places?
At this time what herbs were offered to you?
Were words the thing that meant the most to you?
What other symbolism enchanted you?
Have you believed in the significance of certain birds
or other omens relating to the body?
Do you consider tattoos to be an art form or merely a chaos of the skin?
When your wife were to give birth did you consider your participation in this event a sin?
Do you believe there is an organic reason for your wife’s suffering?
Has your husband considered women or men other than you?
Have you bathed or fasted with the intention of his return?
Have you harbored desire?
Did you kiss someone?
Becoming pregnant did you use herb, hand, or other sharp object against the intended?
Are you someone who cures the sick?
Have you taken advantage?
Have you used nontraditional methods to cure the sick?
Have you laid hands on them?
Have you lured married women from their beds? Did they follow?
Have you had intercourse with a man as a man?
Have you taken belching to be a form of suicide?
Did you dance, sing, or pray in order to alter weather?
Is a bird on the snow a sign that someone is speaking your name?


*Catechism is a translation of the professors and students at the College of William and Mary’s translation from the Spanish of Francisco Pareja’s 1613 Confessionario: A Documentary Source for Timucuan Ethnography.

from A Field Guide to Domesticity

Today, the children are hysterical.
What I mean to say is that
the children are in hysterics.
I don’t mean to quantify the children
or the children's behavior --
just objectively describe it.

The bus (too) toddles aimless around Queens.

Perhaps it is because she uses the wheelchair
that he cannot decipher her body language.
He calls to her, Miss, Miss,
and when she turns from him,
Hey you! Wheelchair!
She obviously doesn’t want this
particular bus.

The children watch the mother’s face change.
The mother moves in strange directions.
Her body is never silent,
she is angular and confusing,
but the children know that look too well,
and they breathe a sigh of relief that it’s not
pointed right at them.

She’s about to blow.

Her desperation to make the world right.

And Now For Some Poems....

Cranky Part 2

I'm also upset about goings on at my son's school. Many parents are leaving his school because it didn't meet up to their expectations. I'm heartbroken in fact. I am believing less and less that the NY school system will EVER work. I think all sides work to racially and economically segregate schools. I have to say, some parents have been really involved and worked hard. Others have put countless hours into "school shopping" and going to 3 or 4 tours of the same schools instead of putting any effort into helping the school their child attends.

What will be my family's punishment for putting my own hippy ideals above giving my child the so-called best education? Will we stick with this school, which like all others has it's wonders and flaws? Will he go Catholic? Will we end up at the local school which is run by Nurse Ratchet and has no recess or sports, but high accademics? Today, I hate New York.

Imus

I'm cranky today. I'm really pissed about the Don Imus thing. I've been watching too much TV. So, this man insulted some women (which happens every five minutes). Is it horrible? Of course. Am I glad his ass got fired? Thrilled! BUT, as usual, the media is turning our heads away from real issues. Does anyone remember there's a war? Does anyone remember it's getting worse and worse and our 18-20 year old boys are dropping like flies? How about Wolfowitz? Isn't the loss of his job a little more newsworthy than a shock jock? Sure, it's all a metaphor - but in the word of the great Woody Allen, bricks work better with Nazis than biting satire.

for eric

I study your back.

My hand hovers above
you/as examine
the plaid yellow and pink shorts.

Boys get really fancy in PS.

Perhaps you can teach me
the importance of beauty
a lingering surface
the irrelevant fact of whether
it is real or fabricated.

Dear One, please live long enough
to wear all those underwear.

The Punishment Begins

You are weary. You
do not want to be drawn into
this narrative of light
and yet, you lean into the body of the story,
his tendency to scrape the bottom
in order to find humanity’s real voice.
The world is merely what we are used to.

from A Field Guide to the Body

for tara

What you don't know is that
this body can collapse at any moment.
We are unable to predict this fragility,
the moment when the body
will have to reorganize itself.

In the museum you were so kind
when my knee gave out.
You wheeled me around
while I chased the boy in and out
of the fake earth exihibits
with my voice.
Believe me, I may look weak
but I have my own system
of running around.

From this vantage
the world is more legible.
My akewardness is no longer
a show destracting from the glorious
minerals, the long dead animals,
the dinosaur bones.
Rather, I am completely ignored.
The only noise I make is
the bulkiness of this machine,
you running me into ankles.

In the chair, I am no longer a threat to society.

Poem for people who hate people who write poems about their kids

I thought I'd have a girl.

I thought I'd never let my kid watch TV.

I thought I'd never let my kid watch anything remotely violent.

I assumed I'd bathe my kid everyday.

I thought I'd make him brush his teeth.

I thought I would only by him gifts on Christmas and his birthday.

i thought I'd never give him Coca-cola.

I never thought I'd serve cocktails at his first, second, third, and fourth birthday parites.

I never thought he beg me to go to the bar at age 4.

I thought he would be gay.

I thought he might be a priest.

I never thought he'd be right-brained.

I never thought the vegetarian thing would take.

I never thought he'd get a Game Boy, which he did, in my deparation to silence him for five minutes. It worked, for two.

Some things are blurry,
others mark themselves with specifics.

He reaches his hand into my sleep,
he insists on pulling me from dreaming.

When is the anxiety going to end?

My body leans toward the beach, my body leans toward the ocean, I don't
need to go toward the water, just sit near it, just move toward the sound.

My dreams are a list of the ocean.
The trying to sort the thing out.

*Note

I don't know if anyone reads these things! Is anyone out there? Anyway, the poem a day thing has been very difficult. I am forcing myself to post icky, unfinished stuff. Some is okay, some is crap. Usually, I don't put anything out there until I've put it through the wringer and hung it out to dry. i.e.

A Broadside of Letters For Jeff


act
ually

Be
cuz

disposition

earache
Frank O’Hara

goodness hell
I (wanted to)

Jump/Kiss
Jeff&Jim & (the) Kat

(so(we took the) L (track)

meditated
napped
or
poked
quatrains
rode
rides


(Jeff) squirmed, seat, said,

“train – uptown
vulgar
wow y

zoo.”

There is a house.
There is not a house.

Sometimes you are in the house.
Often you are not.

There are corners and
the corners are lit.

Sometimes the corners are gritty.

Below are Parts 1,2, and 3 from the "pool" section of A Natural History of California. This is the final section of my book-in-progress. The Didion is part of the poem.

from A Natural History to California

I.

So Dad decided that we should have a swimming pool. It was particially because it was a cool thing to do, but it was also because they were cheap. He found out that he could buy a Doughboy for something like $80 at Sears. First, he would built a deck, so we would have a deck and Emma would paint the deck. She planned to paint the deck red, but not “real” red, more like brown-red. And this was an unusual occurrence because Emma rarely left the television. This, needless to say, was before Emma died.

II.

“When it became generally known a year or so ago that California was suffering severe drought, many people in water-rich parts of the country seemed obscurely gratified, and made frequent reference to Californians having to brick up their swimming pools. In fact a swimming pool requires, once it has been filled, and the filter has begun the process of cleaning and recirculating the water, virtually no water, but the symbolic content of swimming pools has always been interesting; a pool is misapprehended as a trapping of affluence, real or pretended, and of a kind of hedonistic attention to the body. Actually a pool is, for many of us in the West, a symbol, not of affluence but of order, of control over the uncontrollable. A pool is water, made available and useful, and is, infinitely soothing to the western eye.”

--Holy Water, Joan Didion

III.


It was very important to my dad to be able to calculate energy he would put into setting up the pool plus the cost and energy on maintaining the pool in relation to what would be the ultimate use of the pool – that which would have to rely solely on my sisters, my stepmother, and I, as my father had no actual interest in swimming. My father called me every day with a litany of questions: How many months a year could we use the pool? Could we extend my sisters’ summer visit for two weeks? How often would I drive out to the pool? Was I sure that I wanted the pool? So on and so forth.

Much like Joan Didion, [see previous] my father liked the idea of having a pool, rather than the actual pool. The pool as a conceptual idea. The scandal of having a pool in the desert. Though, at this time, we did not live in California.